yes, never answer right away. Get her off the idea that your world revolves around her. If it's important she will send a text or leave a message and you can decide how important it is to respond right away.
Exactly. That's exactly where I am.
Well, she just dropped S off. An hour later than she agreed to, but I didn't ask why. As the little guy came to me and gave me a big hug, she asked him for a kiss and I love you as I held him. I put him down, he opens the door and the dog runs out. I grab his supplies, and as I'm walking inside she asks "Do I need to stay?" and I just say No I've got it. She storms off in a hissy and gives me the finger.
What she did to her hair is so unattractive lol.
Anyway, this snotty behavior is getting really old. I haven't raised my voice, called names, gotten angry or anything. I think it may be an effect of enforcing my boundaries, seeing S being so excited to come home or decreased communication, but who knows.
Me: 35 W: 32 S: 4 T: 6 M: 4 Physical Separation official: 5/21 Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son
Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
