Albac broken but pushing forward

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Just to clarify further when I say she thinks divorce and separated are the same thing. She told me she didn't love me at 11:00pm and night then moved out 7:00am following morning. Asked me to buy her a car a week and a half after she moved out and said something like "I had a car when we got together I think I should leave with one as settlement" she also changed her surname from mine to her parents within 2 weeks.

I struggle to make my sense of her actions and I am sure they are so far from what is considered normal around here. Most people's sitchs I have read on this site are mature adults trying to work out serious problems. My W is more like a rebelling 18 year old who has no idea what she wants in life.