Albac broken but pushing forward

[albac]

Thank you Sandi,

I have been hoping you would come by and give me your opinion.

I definitely see it and I know I need to put a stop to it no matter how much it feels like I'm signing off on the death of my M.

I think I need to as politely as possible ask her to stop sending me photos and texts and only contact me if it is about our D and is important. Also that we have D ready whenever it is time to pickup or swap over so we don't need to spend any longer then required at each other's house. And obviously I need to continue not doing things together as a "family" as we currently are not a family.

Is there anything else you think I need to do or should be doing to bring her into the real world