Thanks Zephyr! I'm definitely of the mindset right now that I don't want to stay in the R with my W without some significant changes being made on her part, which I am seeing some elements of.

While she is still in contact with OM, which won't go away anytimne soon as they work at the same place, she has cut back significantly on texting and phone calls. She has also been very open about any contact that they have had (of course taking her word for it for the time being, trying not to snoop as I can access the backup files from her phone including text messages). But that being said, for a couple of days at least it seems to be a bit of progress in the right direction.

There is still a very long ways to go if we are going to move forward as I want to be with someone who genuinely wants to be with me. At the current time, I know that's not my W. We'll see how the next couple of weeks go.

Have a great weekend everyone!


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Me:44
W:44
Together 22
Married 21
S 19
D 17, 15, 15. 7
EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016
EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016
ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016
WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)