No not spoke to a DB coach as yet. I am still mulling this over only because of the cost. Since H left I have taken on the mortgage and all the bills as I didn't want to sell the house so my expenses have increased significantly.

I know it will help me immensely but I'm not sure I can really afford it....

Me - 47
H - 45
D-16
M - 6 years
Separated - May 16

Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')