Yes it is so hard not to try and guess what they are doing and what is going on in the head of someone that is off the planet. I need to stop but like you said it is far easier said then done.
She is still at it. I think I need to have a serious talk about boundaries and what is and isn't ok.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16