New here and separated

[Coly23]

So, just a question about going dim. I have been doing this for nearly two weeks now and at one point I had zero contact with H for a full five day stretch. He has not initiated any contact at all except to invite me and D to lunch on Sunday after D texted him first and also his comment yesterday about saying he was going to text me regarding the sad death of friend after I texted him. Nothing from him to ask how I am etc. which is one of my goals.

I know should be doing this for myself and to be honest it is working in a way as it means I am not waiting for his response to text/email and getting disappointed when he doesn't respond for a long time. DR says that if it doesn't look like you are getting results you should try something else. Am I at that stsge now or should I keep going, say until after my holiday which is in a week's time..?