Albac broken but pushing forward

[Coly23]

albac, I am bad at mind reading to (or thinking I can mind read!) or as one of my friends put it 'filling in the gaps'! It's so hard not to and I sometimes I think, is that because I don't know my H enough or just don't know him at the moment?

This whole separation thing has become the hardest thing I have experienced so far. The lack of control, knowing etc is doing my head in big time! I know I have to try and detach but that's easier Said than done when all you want go do is call and talk about the R.

I think it looks like you are starting to get small results from your 180 with W especially as you ignored all contact from her and then when you eventually spoke she didn't hold that against you. From a female perspective, if it was me and I really didn't want anything to do with you I would have been fuming that you ignored me or would just stop calling! Keep going, IMHO I think you are on the right track....