WHs do come back--Piecing--acceptance & time

[Coly23]

Hi Blu, it's great to hear that you and your H are reconnecting. I can't imagine what you went through living in a town where everyone is likely to know your business.

Please stop by my thread if you have time but I am struggling at the moment and feel like I have stalled. Did you get moments when you felt like that to? I am going semi-dark with my H as we have one evening a week of family time my D, his SD but he doesn't seem to make the effort unless either me or my D prompt him. This week I've turned down an invitation to Sunday lunch with him and D as he only suggested this after D asked when we were seeing him. I don't want to seem too available but how do I DB when I hardly see him? I've stopped chasing him, texting for the last two weeks unless it is about D of the house which I've only done twice, but it seems like he isn't even bothered anymore. I keep getting these urges to just call him and ask him what is going on but I know that would be pursuing. How did you cope?