Hi Rose888,

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Were you hoping for her to ask you to be back by X o'clock?


Unfortunately, Yes.

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Your wife's response is the one I would expect to hear from a spouse in a healthy relationship (assuming there were no nighttime parenting demands). It's also the response I'd expect from an emotionally detached spouse.


It's my opinion, my W is doing everything possible to detach from me. I'm not 100% sure if she really truly detached but its most definitely closer than my detachment.

One thing I did was, I didn't reply back to her and just wished her a good night.

I found 2 support/Meet-up groups I will be attending on a weekly basis, and I'm not planning to volunteer that info to W. Just go on with my GAL.