Hi lonelyw sorry you are here! I'm a newb as well so I have no advice. Keep an eye out for the vets, they will help you and being on this forum will too.

It seems like you are headed in a good direction with the non clingy behavior.
Stay strong
-c

Me(W): 29 EXW: 30
T: 6 M: 2
SD: 10
BD: 04/2016
PS: 04/2016
W officially "seeing" someone 09/2016
W filed 03/2017
Officially Divorced 11/2017