Well I'm going to give you the advice that likely you and others would give to me - and honestly that I give to all my friends. It's more about him than it is about you. It really is and I know you believe it. Thing is, when it happens to us, it's hard to believe it, isn't it? I can't answer as to why he called to postpone - which really is better than cancel - but I can tell you that it happens to me - a lot. It's one of my leading questions of WHY??? It happens with potential romantic interests and with friends. I can't figure out if it's always been this way and I didn't care so didn't notice or if people have just gotten "different." If I had to guess/mind-read, and we all know how fruitless that can be, my leading contenders is he's a bit scared - again nothing to do with you, and or he's just not feeling it at the moment (then see the first one). Backing off and waiting is the move I'd make. Then again, what in the hell do I know? Above all else I just wanted you to know what happened to you seems to happen a lot!
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
Above all else I just wanted you to know what happened to you seems to happen a lot!