Originally Posted By: Raul
I'm so confuse. So did she leave me because she does not love me or did she leave me because she is with another man? Or is it both? She tells me that it is because she does not love me. She said it is not because of another man. I strongly feel she will be filing for divorce soon.


You may never know. In my sitch my W also said that she decided long before OM that she was done with me. Don't expect to understand her or her motivations.

If she files, then she files and there's not a d@mned thing you can do about it. But you only have to give up when YOU decide that you are giving up. In the mean time be the best Raul you can first for yourself, then for your 2 D and if she ever turns to look at you for W. And yes - it's very hard - especially since like me you turn to jelly at even the hint of a smile.


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