Not updated for a little while....so here we go. Managed to get the joint account sorted this week. XH came back to me with the completed form and I signed it and took it to the bank. Once his name is off, I'll just close the account down.
The house also completed this week, which is good. It was a bit frustrating and a bit of an anti climax actually. When I went in and it was empty, it looked a bit forlorn and it needs a good clean too. I'm going to be busy next couple of days before the removals come on Monday. I plan to get the main bedroom painted, the carpets cleaned and clean the rest of the house too....busy weekend for me as need to finish packing up the flat too...part way there with that and don't have too much stuff...
So, nice guy at work and I texted some more and he ended up saying to me - hey, we should get together for a glass of wine sometime. I said that would be nice. Then I suggested the one night I'm up in his town last week and we arranged that. But then on the morning, he texted to say would I mind if we postpone as he's having one of those weeks....but he'd like to get together another time. I said, for sure no problem...& hoped his week improves.
But, I did have a bit of a vulnerability meltdown behind the scenes. Did he think he was interested then change his mind? Does he still love his XW? Did he just get cold feet? Was he scared? I don't know...We've exchanged a couple of texts since, but I've backed off a little. I think I'll just wait and see what unfolds.
Other than that, had a couple of social things this week - salsa and dinner out with a couple of girls from my divorce group. Funny - we got talking about what exes looked like and got our phones out to share pics of XHs. I showed mine, and both girls said - Wow, I expected your XH would be much better looking than that! Did me some good
Anyway - house prep all weekend, move on Monday, hand the flat keys over on Tues, then sorting out for the rest of the week.
Hope everyone has a lovely weekend xx
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
