Just working the process, but wondering when......

[cbtdad]

Hey RSG,
We did have ac couple days together.
We had a MC appointment yesterday. It went well. I brought up the MBR issue and she said she hasn't even thought about it. She said she did like the aspect of being able to spread out like a starfish and watch tv without worrying about waking me up. She said it in a jokingly way. We somehow got on the subject of my mom which somehow lead us talking about money and retirement.
Which is weird because we talk about all these future things together, but are still living in separate bedrooms.
She brought up the couple times I was "snippy" and said she closes down when that happens, but said that it shocks now when it happens because its rarely.
The MBR issue never got resolved. So last night after having people over I just went to guest bedroom and didn't say anything. Its a weird position for me to be in because I know I could push the issue and be in the MBR no problem, but don't wat to come off as controlling. I am going to approach this again next MC with the understanding that she is thinking about it
I don't know why, but its something Im not really pushing for.
I am honestly very comfortable in the guest room and sleep much better.
So maybe that's why