ForGump -- you know I'm no expert, and I'm anything but fully detached (getting a little better every day, I hope), but I think that the end of clinging/pursuit is just another way of saying "arriving at detachment". The WW notices the detachment -- that you don't follow her around the house or temp check or call/text multiple times per day -- and, eventually, can't keep the warped view going because there's simply no wood for that fire. This will either cause a move back toward the now-detached LBS or it won't (as you know, a lot of marriages just end, DB or not), but you'll be so much more prepared to survive and thrive if it doesn't. Easy for me to say of others -- living it all is the hard part.
Leaving soon to take the kids to the Lake. WW finally weighed in and said she does want to go. Not reading anything into it one way or the other. A bit bummed not to have solo time with the kids, frankly, but I know they'll enjoy having her there, and that is the trump card for me.
Have a good and peaceful weekend!
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)
