So yesterday we had a counseling session that I assumed he wouldn't show up to. But he did, and he came clean to a lot but who knows what's the truth. Anyway, he says he's in the process of ending the relationship with the OW, but again those are just words. So we are going to have no contact until his relationship with her is over. He says that's what he wants to do, and up until now I've been letting him be in both worlds. I'm ending that now. He's going to see what life is like without me. There's a chance he's gonna pick her but I need to do this. I'll probably be posting a lot when I want to text or call him.


Me: 37
Husband: 35
Married 5 years, together 13
Daughter - 1
Bomb dropped - 12/28/2015
He's moving out (officially) - 4/15/2016
EA confirmed 6/1/16
PA confirmed 8/1/16