Since I started posting again I'll offer up my daily update. Yesterday was for the most part quiet with XF. A few witty banter texts later in the evening but nothing much.
Due to everything going on, and my complete transparency with the new girl, she has decided to step into the shadows until I get my head wrapped around all of this. Surprisingly, that was like a weight lifted from my shoulders! We still talked throughout the night almost as we would have before but agreed that we shouldn't see each other or be serious at all until this is sorted out. Her main thing is she doesn't want to be the reason my family doesn't get back together, which I explained wouldn't be on her but it is great to hear she cares about more than just herself in all of this.
Hope all is well in DB land, I'll check in throughout the day.
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home