When I was seeing my grief counselor, one of the things I talked to her about extensively was my struggle to understand what had happened. She just said to me, 'Phoebe, part of the grieving process for you may simply coming to accept that you may NEVER understand why your WH did any of this.' I think she's right. It is very, very likely that I won't ever understand fully what has happened or why, and I think that I can be OK with that.
I'm going to head to sleep, and I wish you a restful night, too!
((((((((((SH))))))))))
H: 44, Me: 45 Married: 20 y Together: 25 y no kids Walk away: 12/15 Asked for temp separation 12/25/15 PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had) H filed for D 5/16
