Mleigh, happy belated Birthday! I like bttrfly’s comment. Looks like your H tried to do something, but it came out very awkward to you. You just never know what is going on in the mind of a MLCer and why they do certain things. I was trying to process the thinking behind my H’s gift for my B-day (a lipstick), while my mutual friends were telling me that he made a comment that he wished I removed my clothes from “his” closet at the Condo. Go figure…
I’m sorry that H’s actions (or inactions) on your B-day set you back. And I completely understand why you are asking all these questions about the future and what you want, and about your son and his wellbeing and his place in all of this…
I’m glad you are staying busy and keep moving along with your life. I know it sounds like a broken record, but I do believe that the answers will come sooner or later. It does seem like a long time that you’ve been in this “limbo” state, but it is probably nothing in MLC time. I totally agree with job, that your H is still baking… Take care of yourself.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
