Hi lovely Miss Painter. I kind of got vacuumed up by my GAL activities this week, but I wanted you to know that I'm still keeping up with you and that I thank you for checking in on me, too.

It's Ok to keep walking the same path, as long as you are still moving forward, however incrementally. Eventually your path will lead to a better place. Just keep moving.

When will the rest of your belongings arrive? I hope soon, because I think that distance from WH, including in terms of communication,will be important of you. I know that complete NC with my own WH has been key to any healing that I have done thus far. That and finally getting at least a significant portion of the truth. I was holding onto that damn rope so heard it was hurting me. Dropping it, in large part because of the truths I discovered, has freed me from a lot of self-inflicted pain.

I'm really excited for you about the Tall Ships festival. I went to one a long time ago, and the ships were so beautiful. I really loved seeing them.

Keep on keeping on, lovely.

((((((((((Painter))))))))))

H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16