The word in this community as to wear the ring or not wear the ring is purely an individual choice. The rule of thumb is that being an individual choice, then whatever you do, it should be done purely for you. Do not do it with hopes of a reaction from the W. Do not do it with hopes your W will notice or feel something about it. Simply ,make the choice for you.
Some LBS see a lot of symbolism in the ring and others not so much.
I never wore mine in the 19 years of marriage, because of a personal preference. I did pull it out for a short time after she moved out and wore it more as a reminder for myself of many things. But I have since placed it in a drawer as it really did not remind me of anything beneficial and I still do not enjoy the feeling of a ring of any sort on my hand.
So in short, do what is right for you and you only.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
