But I also know that sometimes you need closure. Either closure that things are done with you both or some sort of closure of finding out what she is doing.
The alternative is what Fogg said and not give a damn and do YOUR thing. But I am with you as maybe limbo doesn't work for you either.
I did some snooping during my ordeal and came up with tons of clues and accusations of a PA which was denied. I came close to hiring a PI and in retrospect wish I did even after she filed for D to my mind and health.
So do what you think will also give you the closure you need to move onto other things and give you peace of mind.
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....
