Awesome advice sandi! And yes that was the plan for Saturday. Just sit back and listen. See what she has to say about everything.
The hints were things I honestly took as jokes at the time. Early on in this I would have been jumping for joy if she had a bad day at work and said something about just running away together and starting over. My response a month or so ago was "life isn't that easy". Another was her asking me to go to an upcoming event for the kiddo. I said I wasn't even sure who's day it was because I didn't have a calendar in front of me. She replied that it's her night but I'm welcome to come (we had to get tickets). I said well yeah I'll come then, let me know how much it costs. I saw it as good coparenting because it's for his sports team. I never worried about who's day it was for his games, if he had one I went so I treated this the same. She claims it was a way to spend time together? Maybe? I didn't see that at the time though.
Honesty? Maybe? A tactic to make it look like she tried? Maybe? Only she knows for sure...
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home