The NC and me changing the way I am treating this whole situation seems to be working very rapidly.

I am now not pretending or acting "as if" I'm moving on without her I am actually doing it and in the brief conversations we have had and me pulling back no messages and cutting of phone calls seems to be waking her up.

I normally get phone calls and messages everyday mostly disguised as needing to talk about my D. It is 8:30am here and I have just got to work and already I am getting messages. Things like " I couldn't sleep last night I got about 3 hours not happy" what does this even mean. I'm taking everyone advice and in going to let it go and not reply. What's the worst that happens? She gets angry at me for not being available after she leaves?


ME- 31 W-25
T-5 M-3
D2
ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16
W seeing someone else - JUL16