Agreed Gump, I think the flip comes so fast because like anything once you finally make a decision and you convince yourself it's what you want the rest is just background noise as you try to focus on the goal.
The problem with our W's is they are so focused on the goal and blinded to the fact the things that lead to them chasing that goal could be wrong but the decision is already made. It will take a lot of time and true loss to snap them back into a state of questioning the decision. And like so many people tell me, if she is getting everything she wants from me why would she ever change her mind.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16