Thanks, I am trying hard to cut out as much contact as I can and I have not replied to anything that doesn't involve my D but when she phones me most of the time I answer and even ring back if I miss the call. I can see this is a bad move but I have been raised to be a good person and it feels strange going against my natural instincts but I will get the hang of it.
For those that don't fully know my sitch I am 31 and my W is 25. Although she is 25 her current maturity is somewhere around 18-20 I would say and she does have new friends from work which started around the time she left that are aged between 21-25 so you can see what I'm up against.
I am a responsible adult working a good job and was supporting my family but in her world all the things I did for us were nothing and she didn't need me. I think now she is starting to understand how much I actually did and where all the "things" she had came from (and no they didn't come from a fairy in the sky I worked hard to give her those things)
So now people are aware of our age difference and the fact we are both young, I want to ask opinions on snapchat. So for those that don't know snapchat is like a text msg with photos. She sends me photos all the time of my D which is ok I look at them and don't reply but she also sends me a lot that are of her so it is constantly in my face. Yes I could easily not open any and leave them sit there that is an option but they really arnt upsetting to me but they are very confusing.
So my W that chose to leave and chose to see someone else is sending me photos of her goofing around pretty much everyday. Should I be having a conversation with her and saying we are separated I think you need to stop sending me photos?try and bring her closer to the reality that im not her friend and moving on. Any input is appreciated as always.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16