Thank you for the response sandi! I'll clarify a little so you understand better how the convo went. When I pulled in to drop this stuff off, they were both out of her car. I got out and started talking to our son, played with him a little and chatted about his day. I heard her sniffle a few times and glanced out of the corner of my eye. Went about playing with the kiddo. I heard it getting louder so I used a go to bailout excuse. That is when she said about getting home to the girlfriend. If I remember correctly that is the only time she mentioned her directly. I looked at her and just asked what that was supposed to mean? I got something to the effect that it doesn't matter anymore... I said well if it's enough to make a comment about I would like to hear it. That is when she went into saying she thought things between us have been getting better and how she made hints at spending time together. From there I can't say exactly what all was said but I know at some point she said she's been battling with herself over all of this for a long time and couldn't bring herself to say anything. The whole time, I was stone faced, said very little and didn't try to hug or comfort her. Basically listened to what she was saying and nothing more. The only thing I did say that may or may not have given her anything. One of the times she mentioned that it's too late that I moved on, I responded something to the effect that I never say never. Because I never thought I would be where I'm at in life, and if I said it would have never happen I would now look like a liar. How it was left that night, Saturday is gonna be more talking.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home