albac -- I think you have a good opportunity here. Take a day -- just one -- and don't pick up the phone once or answer a single text. She's clearly dependent on whatever she's getting emotionally from all of this; time to let her see what you not in the picture will be like. She won't like it.
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)