albac -- I think you have a good opportunity here. Take a day -- just one -- and don't pick up the phone once or answer a single text. She's clearly dependent on whatever she's getting emotionally from all of this; time to let her see what you not in the picture will be like. She won't like it.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)