Originally Posted By: JRuss
... weirdly wanting a fight to break out to validate their (very negative) view of you.


Thanks for this insight. I needed it. Yep, I think her instinct is to always position me as the source of all her problems. It's the contempt that sandi2 talks about.

Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final