Interesting morning, W said she couldn't move out because the apartment she wanted was too expensive w/her other expenses based on her monthly take home. It appears she wants to continue our Hybrid/Home S. This time, I told her we need it to be fair on division of labor and weekends. She will move into basement from guest room, because from there she can have a better physical space from me.
I can't lie and say that this is a major relief from my mind (I did not disclose that to W). I know the logic if she actually S and moves out than the reality will hit, and possibly force her to reevaluate. With her staying, she get's to eat her cake. At this point, I only have one option and that is to earnestly work the Sandi's 37 the best I can, with emphasis on no pursuing, 180, friendly detachment(based on my situation) and GAL.
