Keep Wearing Wedding Band?

[JRuss]

I can relate to that one, ForGump. It's like they need the pursuit (that they'll then say makes them angry, turns them off, etc.) and, when you're not really even doing anything of the sort, they still try to spin it like you are.

With a side helping of weirdly wanting a fight to break out to validate their (very negative) view of you.

I think it's symptomatic of actual pursuit and clinging dying away -- something they've grown to need to keep the warped view going -- which is good. For YOU.