All newbies or anybody struggling please read

[TimR]

Great to hear you are doing well Uphill even though you are facing some tough choices. And no doubt they are going to be tough choices. JMHO WW's that come back when you start getting close to someone else are there because it is still about them. THEY are losing you to someone else. THEY don't have you on the hook anymore. THEY are not in control of you. THEY are not getting what they want (whatever that is). The question is how long do THEY stick around after they know you are back on the hook. IDK??? Maybe I am just being too cynical???? or projecting my sitch on yours. Again IDK.

For me it is the timing of it. You tell her about GF and then she suddenly has all these feelings which she could have expressed to you but chose not too.

The best advise I could give is think long and hard about it. You could be giving up something very special for more of the same heartache.

Again that is just my two cents and the advice I give is worth what you paid for it ;-)