I still find it odd that someone who has left and by all accounts has moved on needs to talk to me so much.
She has moved on from you being a husband.
She still is attached to you in a brother-sister way, so she wants to keep talking to you. But that is exactly the problem, isn't it? You don't want to be her #$@! brother!
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final