I can't answer your question, but I can sympathize with you....
Thank you... Yeah, I didn't think I was the only one. It does help to know that I'm not the only one, but only a little bit. I'm sure, like me, you'd rather not be on the list of people who know what it's like.
I haven't taken time to keep up on other people's threads... working on that a little today, I'll try to get over to yours also.