I can't answer your question, but I can sympathize with you.
My wife had been going to IC for three years for issues related to childhood sexual abuse. Our MC (now my IC) knows my wife's IC, and evidently, my wife's IC is not really qualified for the treatment of psychological disorders of type that my wife suffers from. However, my wife's IC had been married to a narcissist (she's now divorced) and she specializes in helping women with their narcissistic and psychopathic husbands. Guess what I am? I'm either a narcissistic psychopath or psychopathic narcissist.
Our MC did tell my wife that I'm neither a psychopath nor a narcissist, but did that make any difference? H3ll no!
