Yes may, you are fresh in this. It's a marathon not a sprint. Stick to the 37 and detach buddy, you're here soon enough that you can avoid many of the mistakes I made! I don't know your sitch but if I have time I want to try to catch up on some later today. The best advise I can give is listen to the vets here. Cadet, sandi, wonka... There are many more great people but those are 3 that really stick out. They are here to give back. Not because they have to but because they want to help people like you and me.
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home