I am glad for you that the D ball is finally starting to roll. Limbo is a reasonable place to hang out for a little while, but it's nowhere anyone would want to hang out forever. I've been there so long I'm not even certain that major D progress eill change anything at all.
Sorry, SH. I'm falling asleep ahain
H: 44, Me: 45 Married: 20 y Together: 25 y no kids Walk away: 12/15 Asked for temp separation 12/25/15 PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had) H filed for D 5/16