Originally Posted By: Wonka
CT

RSG,

I would suggest that you wait a few more days before sending of an email to W. What I have learned from experience that it usually is more effective to write one or two (or 50 drafts) then step away for a day or two as one gains an altogether perspective when one is not under stress or at an emotional time.

Agree?

Now that I have given you some feedback earlier, why don't you post your second draft here so we all can work with you on it. I think you're ready since you've been around here for some time.



Yes, I agree. Here's what I have so far. I'm a good writer generally, but I just don't have much confidence writing something like this!

I have been thinking, that our communication right now is a bit much. I feel very overwhelmed and that our communication does not match our situation as Separated spouses. I just feel like I need space at this time, and I'd like our communication level to reflect that. I will let you know if there is any issue with Stanton of course, but barring that just assume that he is in good hands with Daddy.




Whaddya think Wonka?


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.