CT,

I am so glad I saw this post. I don't want to label my STBX, but if I can relate behaviors to an individuals actions then she may be having one of these also.

I suggest LBS's study all sorts of labels, not to try and label their WAS but to learn and identify poor behaviors in the LBS's future Rs in order to sustain a healthy R, whether reconciling with the WAS or a finding a new R.

H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...