wife of 14 years walks out on her family

[Raul]

youtube ways to brush their hair.
you can do it.
She doesn't "need" to come over.

It sounds to me like YOU need some serious space to sort out your emotions and feelings.

Clearte,
My daughter has this thick, curly hair. And it's long. But you are right. YouTube has many videos. Fortunately, my sister has agreed to teach me on how to brush her hair. My 9 year brushes her own hair now.