RSG, I have been keeping up to date on your thread.

It is definitely hard to have the control to keep things short and cut it off especially when it is the person we are trying to get back that wants to talk to us.

I am getting better at ignoring calls and leaving texts for a few hours and actually trying to get to a point where I really don't care that she has tried to contact me. I ignored the first 3 calls yesterday then answered on the 4th, it wasn't important at all and she half fave me attitude for not answering the first 3.

I still find it odd that someone who has left and by all accounts has moved on needs to talk to me so much. I think it's just guilt and maybe even feels she is obligated to try and keep me around for the sake of our D. She is a very confused person I don't even try to guess what she is thinking


ME- 31 W-25
T-5 M-3
D2
ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16
W seeing someone else - JUL16