Albac broken but pushing forward

[albac]

Gump, yes our W's sound very similar and mine has no impulse control and it is the reason I am trying so hard to go NC because I know everything will come crashing down around her.
She decided in one week that she wanted to start a degree that goes for 6 years while trying to raise our daughter and work part time. I hate to say it because I don't want to see her struggle but it is doomed to fail I see it as less then a 1% chance she will see It out.

The thing I struggle with he most right now is to stick to my boundaries when she wants contact all the time without seeming angry or mean. I need to find ways to shut it down without seeming cold which is hard because for one I like talking to her and the feeling it gives is that I'm pushing her away even though I know it's the only way to bring her closer.

I have only really been trying this for a week or so now and I feel each day I'm getting better. I never contact her so that is not a problem for me it's just dealing with when she contacts me that is the problem.