Gump,in so many ways our sitchs are similar. I am just like you I think my W was a WAW and then found someone that made her happy and went with it.
I think Sandis advice is the best thing for us. We need to show our W's that we are ok and we won't stand for being a friend, and really what is the alternative? I have no doubt that if this doesn't work and I don't get her back I can still be her friend any time in the future for the sake of our D but right now I want to save our relationship. Trust me when I say I know how hard this is and everyday I wake up she is the first thing on my mind and the last thing when I go to sleep.
One day at a time. Stay strong.
ME- 31 W-25 T-5 M-3 D2 ILYBNILWY and moved out - FEB16 W seeing someone else - JUL16
