She thinks she has realized what she wants out of a spouse and it's not me. I don't think she will truly and fully understand the choice she's made until she's really on her own w/o me. I think her feelings will change. I'm not certain they will change in a way that she'll want me back. I just think they will change in some significant way, because as long as I'm accessible to her, much of her contempt for me as the reason for her dissatisfaction in life will linger.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
