I think she needs to decide what she wants out of life, out of a spouse, and I don't think she will fully understand what she wants until she's on her own w/o me.
I think you nailed it buddy. I finally took the time today to read your full posts - i had missed a few pages. (Like you said about being distracted at work by this, me too).
Being on their own...I know this is true, and someone said it above too, if it was not for the kid(s) I think most of us would be out. I know every time I broke up with/or was broken up with in my life I was just like "ok, sorry, see you later" and made no attempt at contact. And each time, with a number of months guess who shows back up.
I mean, Sandi has really done her best to offer the road map for all us aching LBS's and I do believe that road is the best chance of getting to the destination. But are they WAW or WW or MLC and how does one respond and when do you say enough? Thats for us as individuals to decide. You said earlier that this place was painful or something like that. I believe most of us are here when we are at the point of having to use the LRT. The lucky ones find it when they just realize their M is trash and they need to do better. Just such a confusing place to be. You hang onto yourself tight dude. If your WW is MLC, its a long road, but we don't have to ride in the same car with our WW's driving.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6
