Originally Posted By: sandi2
The good news is that feelings can change, therefore, her desire can return....if her H is smart in knowing how to deal with her.


That is the million dollar question, isn't it.

Thanks for explaining WW vs. WAS and sexual attraction. It helps me think through my own issues. FWIW, I think in my situation... my W is a mix of WW and MLC, with a splash of WAS. I guess I'm not sure what the main difference is between WW and MLC. Can't WW and MLC co-exist?

Not that any of this really changes what I need to do (detach, GAL, go dim, etc.) but ... I guess it helps me feel a little better to understand what the heck is going on, and to have appropriate expectations -- as in... zero expectations.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final