A female coworker told me that most likely when I text her at 2 am that she was probably with her new man. The same way he got her by text her at 2 am, now he is feeling insecure.
Life [censored].
Yes - yes it does. And sadly by texting at 2 am all that probably happened is that you ticked her off. I tend to file OM into a broad category of scum that deliberately ruins families with no regard for anyone's feelings but their own. I doubt your text had any impact on him.
This is going to be a long haul. At this point "nothing" you do will affect your WW because of the fog she is in and OM isn't any of your concern or interest.
I had a longer episode when I was traveling for business for a week. Even though I thought I'd started DBing I was even worse at it then than I am now if you can believe it. I would text / message WW in the morning and evening and occasionally on break sending the same sort of messages I have for years when I travel. "wish you were here" etc etc. When I got back WW was a wreck and said she had a horrible week. Being as my mind-reading has been on the fritz since well before BD I can't say why or if it had an impact on her attitude towards me for good or for bad.
Stay strong buddy.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
