Newbie - my story

[maybs]

Personally, I would not have initiated D. My W filed and because of that I'm going to let it play through. Dragging my heels at this point would just be pouring gas on the fire...It wouldn't help me emotionally or financially and it would not help our chances of Reconciling

I've 180'd from asking her to stop the D to, I don't want to say accepting it, because I have not accepted it but I'm not openly fighting it anymore.

For my situation I plan to take the maximum amount of time I can to file my answers with the court and such but other than that I'm going to let it flow through at speed.

And like I said in my post earlier, I think at least in my situation the D has to go through, or come very, very close, for there to be any chance of reconciling. I need to "act as if" she's lost me and I'm moving on without her and she needs to feel that loss and right now I know she doesn't think she ever could lose me 100%