Keep Wearing Wedding Band?

[ForGump]

Take advantage of your situation and really show her that you can be the husband she needs and you want to be...

Thank you for that encouraging note ... I'm trying to do that but ... I don't think it's doing anything. I'm trying to be positive w/o being needy or pursuing in anyway. It feels like she's made up her mind -- and she's really relieved to have made up her mind and she's going to stick to it -- and she's enjoying not having to give to a relationship. She can say/do whatever she wants and be selfish and pursue her own impulses w/o considering what it means to a partner. I can see how that is free-ing to someone who has low impulse control.

I think she needs to decide what she wants out of life, out of a spouse, and I don't think she will fully understand what she wants until she's on her own w/o me.